A Great New Blog Design Give~away at Raising Arrows July 28, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in Birth Jewelry, Uncategorized.Tags: Babywearing, Birth Jewelry, blog, contest, giveaway, raising arrows
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My friend Amy over at Raising Arrows has recently redesigned her blog and to celebrate she is giving away four great prizes. Any one of these would be perfect for a busy mom and include: planner, birth jewelry [from yours truly], a blog redesign and a custom Mai Tai style carrier [that is gorgeous!].
Head on over to Raising Arrows and register for the give~away. While your there, check out some of her posts, I think that you’ll find Amy gracious, loving and full of wit and wisdom!
Post Partum Musings July 2, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in A day in the life of me, Musings, Pregnancy.Tags: baby, birth, Doula, midwife, Pregnancy, real life, waterbirth
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My brand new water-birthed babe.
Perhaps you’ve noticed that I’ve been absent without leave around here lately. With good reason I think. Having been gestating quietly these past several months, like nine + a year [it seemed!] I finally brought forth new life almost a month ago.
Having a newborn, after some 3 years was like starting over again! I can’t believe how much I forgot and what I had to think hard about! Like wearing my baby. I love to wear my babes. It’s convenient for me and good for them. But it’s like I’ve never done it before. I can’t get the sling just right, and then my little peanut falls over. I totally can’t get her in there laying down in order to breastfeed. I feel like a real novice! lol
I’ll post a birth story soon. Right now it’s time to go and enjoy those precious moments w/my little nursling.
Australian First-time Mum Delivers 13.5 Pound Baby July 2, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in Uncategorized.Tags: 13 pounds, 6.28 kg baby, australia, baby, Chlesea Rose Mackay, Danielle Mackay, large, outback, Townsville Hospital
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Holy moly, yes, you read that right 13 1/2 pounds of baby! Danielle Mackay gave birth last Thursday to Chelsea Rose via cesarean section, the reason of course being: “doctors were afraid” that Chelsea wouldn’t fit through Danielle’s hips. Read all about it here.
People automatically assume that Danielle had to be diabetic. Not so says the good doctor:
Neonatal specialist Dr Yoga Kandasamy said while most babies of Chelsea’s size were sick or had mothers with gestational diabetes, both mum and bub were a picture of good health.
Although Chelsea’s blood sugar and feedings are being monitored. Thus far all is well. Full story here.
So, can good old ‘hearty tucker’ grow a baby this big? Perhaps. A century ago, when most lived an agraian lifestyle and women worked just as hard as the men on the farm [not that they don't now] babies tended to be larger. Plus they were birthed at home either with a midwife, country doctor or neighbor in attendence. Times have changed. With our tendancy to birth lower weight babies in the modern era, we look at large babies almost with disgust. Something must be wrong in order to grow a baby that large. “Oh, well you must have had Gestational Diabetes.” Or perhaps mom had a horrible diet consisting of Coca~cola and twinkies. But what about the moms who had near perfect diets?
Diet can and does play a huge role in the size of our babies. All of my babes have been well over 8 pounds. No GD here. Simply a very healthy diet, low in refined carbs and junk food. No soda, no sugary laden sweets. Lots and lots of meat and vegetable protein and healthy carbs, whole grains, fruits & veggies and the occasional sweet; a healthy sweet of course.
Did Danielle have such a diet? It’s possible, but I can’t be sure. Being the armchair umm, rather desk chair critic here, by the looks of that baby, she has ample fat stores. Perhaps too much fat? Although my own babies have weighed in over 8 pounds, none of them have been ‘fat’ looking. The same is true for my friends who have birthed ‘dense’ babies. Strong babies with higher body weight but not extra fat. Chelsea looks a bit rollie pollie to me, but not immensely fatty.
Now, about large babies not fitting. True, CPD happens and I’d much more likely believe it in cases like this where the baby was indeed quite large. But the only way to correctly diagnose CPD [I've been told] is with an X-ray. Most doctors prefer to rely on the ultrasound which is infamous for it’s false diagnoses. I wonder if indeed these docs shot some film to correctly diagnose, or did they just rely on the old “baby is too big to fit” line and order the section. Who knows?
Regardless of all this idle chatter, CONGRATULATIONS to Ms Mackay and Mr Mifsud on their beautiful bundle of joy. And for their 15+ minutes of fame around the globe as well! Welcome to Earth little Chelsea, this will be great for you when you’re 16 and everyone knows you as Australia’s largest baby!
Life is good.
Pregnancy Treasury on Etsy March 22, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in My Artistic Side, Pregnancy.Tags: Pregnancy, pregnant, art, birth art, birth, soap, etsy, treasury, shastacreations, bearthangel, beautiful
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There is a great treasury on etsy right now featuring all pregnant bellies. It is entitled “Beautiful” and it truly is. If you are looking for something special pregnancy related, you might just find it in one of these featured shops. ShastaCreations created this treasury and she has some lovely pieces in her shop, featuring fabric creations and custom bias tape.
I feel honored that she chose my pregnant cameo soaps to be listed in her treasury. I hope that you will take a few minutes and check out the treasury and leave a comment as well! Thanks!
Birth Art Creativity February 22, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in A day in the life of me, Birth Jewelry, Faith, My Artistic Side.Tags: Birth Jewelry, art, birth art, Faith, Jewelry, birth, pro-life, pre-born, life
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I’ve been experimenting with a new medium, cast acrylic resin. I made a silicone mold of my belly beads to cast in. I’ve been toying around with different colors and techniques as well. So far~so good. I’m very pleased with the direction these are going. The resin has a much more polished look and I can dress them up moreso than the clay beads. I’m still making the clay beads, especially for the tiny ones I’m using for the Rosary bracelets that have been popular. You can see a cross section of my designs here. I am keeping busy with orders now, which is a good thing. I am also humbled that so many folks are drawn to my work. I feel honored that the Creator would bestow upon me the abilities that He has, for I could do nothing with out Him.
My latest project has been a two step bead. First I sculpt a tiny little fetus and placenta out of clay. Each one of these takes 15-20 minutes. Then I cast this ‘little one’ into the belly of a clear resin bead. The result is a womb with a view. These are perfect educational art peices. Jewelry that can be used to illustrate the babe in utero. Great teaching tools for midwives, doulas or mommies for little curious minds.
They are also a very powerful pro-life tool. You can very clearly make out the babe, complete with arms, legs, and facial features. A tiny little human being before birth.
If you had asked me 5-10 years ago if I could make such a thing I would surely have laughed right out loud! I marvel at the cycle of life and where it has brought me, and I wonder at where it yet leads. Time will tell.
Pregnancy Blessings!

Womb with a view.
New Life February 17, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in A day in the life of me, Pregnancy.Tags: baby, new, real life
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My friend had her baby this morning in the wee hours. A sweet dark haired beauty. As I held her this afternoon with such joy, I marveled at this new life. Only 24 hours ago I spent time w/her mother at a leisurely lunch, admiring her full bloom belly. What a difference a day can make!
Holding newborn babies is dangerous business. This one is so perfect, round head and face, beautiful skin coloration, alert, active. Just wonderful for a newborn, with that ultra softness that only newborns have. Makes one’s mind travel to that place, you know the “I want another baby” place! lol
Like I said, dangerous.
Then there’s the mom. Beaming radiantly from her bed. It’s one of those moments when moms think that they look their worst, you know~no make-up, hair’s not done, wearing a hossy gown, hasn’t slept, etc. etc. But, she’s gorgeous, radiant with that new mother look. Love oozing out of her very skin. I wonder if she realizes how beautiful she really is. I love these moments. They are part in parcel of why I’m a doula. I wasn’t a doula for this birth, but it is pure joy to experience the new parents delight even after the birth, when reality has sunk in and they’ve had time to love & hold their new babe. :) Thanks for sharing that with me.
Happy Birthday little one.
Job well done Momma.
VBACs and Induction Techniques February 5, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in Doula, Pregnancy.Tags: birth, maternity, Pregnancy, vaginal birth after cesarean, vbac, women
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Here is a wonderful resource on inducing a VBAC that discusses several different types of gels or methods. Cytotec is not discussed here as it believed that it is too strong of an induction mode for a uterus that has an incision scar [or any uterus for that matter]. Clicky.
Many women wonder what their ‘odds’ are at actually getting the VBAC that they so desire. The number one requirement, next to your own desires and education on the subject, is a health care provider that is truly supportive of your decidsions to VBAC. W/out that, you’re fighting an uphill battle.
Another VBAC post January 30, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in Pregnancy.Tags: Pregnancy, pregnant, vbac, maternity, vaginal birth after cesarean, reality check, elective
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Since I’m in the VBAC mode, I thought I’d share this great blog post regarding the “elective” cesareans that women are choosing. This comes from Reality Check and has some very valid points regarding electives.
There are risks to VBAC and risks to repeat C-section—even those done after 39 weeks—and women should be weighing the risks and benefits with objective care providers who will support their decision. But this is not what’s happening. In a survey conducted in 2005, more than half of women seeking VBAC could not find a willing provider or hospital.
VBAC Resources January 14, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in Doula, Pregnancy.Tags: acog, birth, cesarean, Doula, hospital, Pregnancy, surgical birth, vaginal birth after cesarean, vbac
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There seems to be so much dis-information circulating out there regarding VBACs. Especially after ACOG came out with a statement against attempting VBACs. Many women have been denied VBACs or given a token “trial of labor” that only resulted with a repeat cesarean. Yes there are dangers such as uterine rupture, but these are often over-blown or sensatinalized. A uterus can and does rupture w/out a cesarean scar. And with a properly closed and healed incision, many women can go on to give birth vaginally with proper assistance and guidance.
Here are a few of my favorite resources online.
http://www.childbirthconnection.org/article.asp?ClickedLink=293&ck=10212&area=27
Besides being a doula, I’m pretty handy at… January 4, 2009
Posted by doulamuse in A day in the life of me.Tags: dishwasher installation, electrical wiring, handy woman, home life, other skills, real life
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Installing dishwashers and switching out light fixtures!
The end of 2008 and the beginning of 2009 has found us in the position to replace our hot water tank, then the need to replace the dishwasher. The dishwasher we had was old and the pump went out. Partly due to the hot water tank replacement. When you mess with old plumbing, some of that pipe plaque breaks loose and in our case, clogged up our DW pump. So we had the option of trying to fix the old one, which didn’t always work so well, or upgrading. DH chose the upgrade option and I must say that I’m overjoyed at how well the new washer works. It is very quiet as well.
Besides changing out a couple of light fixtures recently, that’s about all I’ve been up to. Next we start our remodeling project in the laundry room.